"I like to think of the tension in a Thoroughbred’s body as it seeks to learn the meaning of our aids as an intense desire to please us." ~ Steuart Pittman
Throwing the reins away to the point that they are so loose that there are loops in them is not the answer to solving your problem of being too strong/tense/rigid in the hands and arms. You must keep a connection, and learn to be elastic within that connection. That is the only way to advance.
In no way does holding a horses neck in a position build up correct muscle. The horse has to actually be using those muscles correctly to improve musculature in the topline.
Tip/Quote of the Day # 1213When your horse isn't jumping well, 9.9 times out of 10 you don't have a jumping problem, you have a canter problem. Work on the quality and balance of your canter, and the jumping problem will fix itself.Tip/Quote of the Day # 1212
"Allow your horse the opportunity to use his neck more." ~ Reiner Klimke
If becoming a great rider wasn't hard, everyone would be able to do it. It's the hard that makes it great.
Tip/Quote of the Day # 1210Michael Jung puts particular emphasis on checking his horses’ heart and respiratory rate once before and twice after each ride, the first time immediately after work and the second time after the horse had time to recuperate.Tip/Quote of the Day # 1209"During your course walk carefully and check the take-off and landing points at each fence. Ask yourself: how fit is my horse, how undulating is the course and how will this affect the time allowed?" ~ Michael JungA Test of Your Flatwork Training (For All Levels!)
No matter what riding style or discipline you choose, you should be able to prove the solidity of your basic foundation by passing this simple test. And rather shockingly, there are many horses and riders at all levels would NOT pass this test! The very large hole in the foundation of the riders who find this exercise to be overly challenging will follow (and haunt) them forever... or at least until some very wise trainer comes along and fills it in! (Click on Article Title above (in blue) to read full article)
I'm glad you sent some videos along with this question, as even though he doesn't look particularly spooky or backed off in these videos, I can get a much more clear picture of what is going on... (Click on Question or Video Title above (in blue) to read full answer)
Tip/Quote of the Day # 1207"Young horses need plenty of opportunities to get used to the various cross country fences. Cross-country training should be included at least once a week." ~ Michael JungTip/Quote of the Day # 1206
Bounces teach horses to be quick thinking - an essential quality in an Event horse.
I totally hear what you are saying... it sucks to get older! Aging riders often have to deal with chronic pain and stiffness from past falls and injuries, in addition to the "normal" problems of aging. I think that many of the ideas to keep older horses going strong will benefit riders as well! (Click on Question Title above (in blue) to read full answer)Tip/Quote of the Day # 1203Don't miss your chance to make a good first impression in the Dressage ring, with a forward, confident center line, and a smile for the judge! Tip/Quote of the Day # 1202Point your chest in the direction that you want to go. If you turn your horse with your body position, you will probably find that you will need a lot less hand and leg to get it done. Video # 95: This is Krista and her horse Sparky!(Click on Video Title above (in blue) to read the critique of this video)
"Create a work station on your yard, where everything to do with work happens – for example, tacking up and washing off – and keep his stable for relaxation only. Then your horse knows he can totally relax when he’s in his stable and won’t be expected to work." ~ Carl Hester
"A major consideration concerning the horse’s posture in all lateral movements is the bend in the rib cage behind the withers. For achieving this bend is the foundation for the suppleness of the entire horse. One will never achieve this bend if one rides the lateral movements on four tracks too early, or if one tries to force these movements with crude aids, and if one forgets to reposition one’s legs in the transitions from one lateral movement to another." ~ Borries von Oeynhausen
This is a great (and funny!) video showing everything you need to know about the movements turn on the forehand and turn on the haunches, along with some of leg yield and half pass. What did you learn from this video? (Click on Video Discussion Title above (in blue) to watch video, and read this educational discussion)
From Facebook fan Elise Vandover ~ "I often tell my students that the outside rein is like the vinyl wall of an above-ground pool; elastic, stretchy and flexible, but enough of a boundary to keep the 'water in the pool'."
Remember that to balance your horse in front of a fence you do not necessarily have to slow down. Many times you simply need to change the shape of the canter stride - i.e. bring the horse into a more uphill frame.
I just read a Facebook post today, from a very dear friend. She was given a trunk full of equipment including tie-downs, draw reins and an assortment of other “training aids.” Her dilemma was to toss it, because she trains by classical, time proven methods (IMO, a true horsewoman!), or to “not waste it” and give it away, knowing it could very well be used on young horses in training. (Click on Blog Title above (in blue) to read full entry)Tip/Quote of the Day # 1195
Stop looking for that "perfect" take off spot, and focus on the quality of your canter. A horse that is well balanced, with the right amount of impulsion for the jump at hand, can comfortably leave the ground from just about any reasonable takeoff spot.
Many horses and riders dislike trotting fences... and for a legitimate reason! Because it can require even more patience to trot a fence than it does to canter one! And since we are never required to trot a fence in the Eventing world, it is common for riders to decide that they don't need to spend a lot of time working on this skill.
Trotting fences, especially bigger ones, is a lot like eating your veggies... you may not especially like them at that moment, but they are good for you! Not only will they force you to wait for the base of the jump, but they will teach your horse to... (Click on Article Title above (in blue) to read full article)
"In practice, do things as perfectly as you can: in competition, do what you have to do." ~ William Steinkraus
Tip/Quote of the Day # 1193If your horse tends to anticipate picking up the canter when performing the simple change, add a downward transition to walk or halt, or maybe a 10 meter circle in trot, before picking up the canter again. Don't let your horse pick up the new canter lead until he is waiting for you. Tip/Quote of the Day # 1192
"When the horse jumps, you go with it, not the other way around." ~ William Steinkraus
When galloping along between fences - no, not really. Although the ability to switch to the inside lead to make an upcoming turn will certainly make it easier to keep the horse balanced (and less likely to slip and fall around turns.) But there is an important point here that I want to bring up... something that most riders never think of, and can make a difference in their horse's soundness... (Click on Question Title above (in blue) to read full answer) Tip/Quote of the Day # 1191
A running martingale that fits correctly does not come into play unless the horse tosses its head, or tries to stick it straight up in the air. It should not be used to keep the horse's head down.
After being abroad for two months, nothing felt better to me than climbing into the saddle and working Lucy. One of the many things I love about her is that you can leave her on stall rest for a week or not ride her for two months and she will be the same exact horse as when you stopped riding. She has a wonderful mind and attitude for work (now that we've established a relationship) and the biggest challenge is working through her tension. (Click on Blog Title above to read full entry)
Read enough Dressage theory, and you will eventually hear the term, "Legs without hands - hands without legs." The extreme interpretation of this is the mantra of the French school of Dressage. (Read all about the different schools of Dressage here.) And one might conclude that the German school of Dressage is what promotes using hand and leg aids at exactly the same time - therefore giving the horse conflicting aids. But that is not actually the case... (Click on Article Title above (in blue) to read full article)
"Don't let over-jumping or a dull routine erode the horse's desire to jump cleanly. It's hard to jump clear rounds if the horse isn't trying." ~ William Steinkraus
A social media post came thru my newsfeed today, wherein the poster complained about the recent riding at the Falsterborg (SWE) show. She used the words “rough” and “abusive” and feels that type of riding is prevalent in today’s FEI CDI rings. (Click on Blog Title above (in blue) to read full entry)