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Let me share an intimate personal story with you... A long time ago, I went through a brief phase in my riding, where my horse's very big jumping efforts in the Show Jumping were jostling me out of my position. As you can see from these photos, Felix would often clear his oxers by a couple of feet:

The problem would then be compounded, as I approached each big jump (especially big, square oxers) anticipating being thrown out of position, and I would unconsciously react by becoming tense and rigid, bracing myself against the jump on the takeoff. This of course meant that the shock absorbing quality of my joints would be locked. And I would have NO chance of staying with his rocket launch style of jumping with locked shock absorbers! So things would go from bad to worse. And a vicious circle ensued.
I knew what the problem was, but I was having a hard time making myself stay supple and relaxed on the takeoff, so that I had a chance of going with my horse's jumping motion more smoothly. So, what I did to fix this problem was to pay a visit to an Equestrian Sport Psychologist. And it was none other than our wonderful Dr. Paul Haefner of Riding Far!
What he had me do was try to remember a very specific time when I did go smoothly with my horse in a supple way over a jump. Then he had me come up with a "cue" word, that I would use to bridge the feeling I wanted to have to the jumps I would be approaching. I chose the word "supple".
He then had me close my eyes, and imagine that perfect jump in my head. Feeling every little detail, and seeing myself following my horse's motion perfectly. While I played that movie over and over in my head, he would say the word "supple". This went on for 15 minutes or so... and then I left.
I had an Event that weekend, and was curious as to whether my single visit to the Sports Psychologist would have any affect on my performance. To be honest... I really didn't think it would.
What I was to do was to utilize my cue word every chance I had. When walking the Show Jumping course, I would say the word "supple" (in my head) as I was walking up to each big jump. I would say it when I would mentally rehearse my course in my head, along with picturing and feeling myself going with my horse's motion perfectly.
When it came time to actually jump my Show Jumping course, I said the word "supple" quietly in my head a few strides out from each jump. And do you know what?? It worked! My problem was at least 90% better! From just one visit to the Sports Psychologist, and no actual riding practice whatsoever! I could hardly believe it!
That experience really showed me just how powerful the mind is, and how we can use that power to improve our riding! I think that in general, this power is greatly under-utilized!
So how can YOU use your mind to improve your riding?? Think about an area of your riding where you might be able to incorporate a simple cue word or phrase to remind you subconscious what to focus on.
Do you tend to be nervous at shows? Try the word "calm", or "serene". Do you struggle with elastically following your horse's motion with your elbows? Try the word "bungee cord", or "jello". Would you like to relax and sink more onto your seat bones on the flat? Try thinking of "melting butter". Do you want to be more still and quiet on top of your horse? Try thinking of the word "poise", and maybe imagine carrying a book on your head, or one of the riders from the Spanish Riding School. Would you like to be more quietly focused in all of your work? Try the words "calmly focused".
Try to remember a very specific time when you did feel like you were calm at a show, elastic in your elbows, or poised and elegant on your horse... and go through the same process that I outlined above to help you bridge that word to the quality that you would like to reproduce. If you have never felt that quality, then you will have to use your imagination to produce the movie in your head, and the feel of what you are looking for. This can work hand in hand with the "as if" principle, to use visualization and the power of your mind to improve your riding.
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- Tip/Quote of the Day # 3494
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- Square Exercise # 1
- Question # 75: I tried the walk 2 steps and trot exercise tonight with my pony. I figured it would get him to respond better ,and he did at first, but then didn't want to walk and he was anticipating trot.
- The Sit a Few Strides, Post a Few Strides Exercise
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 3785
- An Ian Stark Jumping Exercise (For the Very Brave!) That Will Sharpen Up Every Horse!
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 3740
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 2920
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- Video # 312 and Question # 331: This is Rachael!
- Video # 98: This is Kayla and her coming 6 year old TB mare riding Training level test 2
- Photo # 68: Hailey would like a conformation critique for her horse, a 16.2 hand Appendix!
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 687
- Photo # 53: This is Ilinka!
- Treating the Symptom VS the Root of the Problem (Current Freebie!)
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 3787
- The Horse That Carries Tension in its Back
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 3513
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- Does Your Horse Try to Pull You Out of the Saddle?
- Video # 82: This is Vita doing a Dressage test!
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 216
- Video # 59: This is Rachel doing her Beginner Novice Dressage test!
- Video # 29: This is Kate having a dressage lesson! And we are told that her chestnut mare does not care for dressage, and much prefers the jumping phases!
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 3706
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- Quin's Blog post # 5: A Ground Pole: The Best Jumping Challenge Ever
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 1671
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- Are You Thinking Right Away When You Land From a Jump?
- The Horse/Rider Relationship - Respect Vs Trust
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 4142
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- Discussion # 178: The question asked here is: Can you jump this big wide spread fence, and still have enough control to jump the accuracy question that makes the next element?
- Video # 320: This is Bridget, and her 20 year old horse who hasn't done this in quite a while!
- How to Train for Self Carriage at the Gallop
- All About the Volte!
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 1821
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 1758
- Ruth's Blog post # 1: Perfect Practice Makes Perfect
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 1709
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 1700
- Video # 100: This is Susanne and her lovely horse enjoying some cross country schooling!
- Question # 314 and Video # 99: This is Susanne!
- Question # 302, and Video # 96: I have a question about confidence. My horse is 8 but had about 6 months off when I was pregnant in 2015. Since coming back I feel like he has been spookier then he used to be. Before I could trust him to jump anything...
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 1143
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 939
- Guest Blog post # 65: "Conscious Incompetence" by the infamous Bad Eventer!
- Question # 261: I have had my 8yr old gelding about 3 months, previously he had done lots of hunting in his native Ireland but no competing. We have completed four BE 90 classes...
- A Fun Exercise to Test Your Control and Your Horse's Responsiveness
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 435
- Video # 56: This is Taren schooling cross country!
- Question # 140: I have a question about lunging. Normally my horse is very good on the lunge line,
- Discussion # 69: What makes this particular skinny jump in the water so difficult?
- Question # 136: I have a question about a problem that I am having with my mare on cross country.
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 4229
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- Video # 324: This is Bridget and her 5 year old horse's first course at 75cm!
- Jumping Rideability Exercise # 3
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 2106
- A TEST of Your Horse's Rideability & Adjustability
- A Ground Pole Exercise to Improve Your Horse’s Rideability Over Fences
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 1885
- Question # 322: Kayla has some new jumps and has a question about what to set up for a green horse.
- Video # 103: This is Kayla doing Novice level Show Jumping!
- The Adjustability Exercise
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 1289
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- Video # 93: This is Jen!
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 969
- OC Question # 2: How can you tell if a horse is ready to move up a level?
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 851
- Video # 80: This is Sarah, doing a Training level stadium round!
- The Mark Todd Clinic - Fresno CA, Jan 2015 (Current Freebie!)
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 474
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 367
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 186
- Video Discussion # 71: What caused this rail down?
- Question # 125: I have a question about bravery in the field and jumping without schooling first.
- Are You Going the Right Speed For YOUR Horse in the Show Jumping?
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 4447
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- The Order of Aids For Changing Your Horse's Bend From One Side to the Other
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 2838
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 2001
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- Video # 106 and Question # 320: Kayla asks if her horse looks to be accepting the bit as she lunges him in side reins.
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 1564
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- Tip/Quote of the Day # 94
- Engagement
- Throughness
- The Quality of the Contact (Current Freebie!)
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 4264
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- Tip/Quote of the Day # 3789
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 1965
- Does Your Horse Fall In When Lunging?
- Photo # 59: This is Kellyn and her horse Rowan!
- Video # 42: This is Kathleen!
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 4478
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- An Exercise to Help Teach Your Horse to Seek the Connection
- A Mental Trick to Help You to Think More About Your Horse's Hind Legs When Riding & Jumping
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 1743
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 1452
- Improve Your Ability to Think on Your Feet When Riding!
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 1094
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- Question # 269: I am planning to get a new jumping saddle soon, and am not sure what kind to get. Do you like saddles with big knee rolls, or saddles that are more like close contact saddles for eventing? (Anonymous)
- Tip/Quote of the Day # 819
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- An Exercise to Improve Your Ability to Coordinate Your Aids
- How Good Posture Unravels






